
As a wedding calligrapher, I serve the role of hand lettering a bride's wedding envelopes as well as serving as etiquette guide, assisting the bride with the proper form of addressing for her wedding envelopes.
With less formal weddings comes the temptation to be less formal in the form of address. I always tell brides that they should not confuse "formal" with "proper". Proper is always the standard by which you address your envelopes.
It is a sign of respect for a recipient to receive an invitation that is properly addressed and this is the perfect occasion in which the bride can show her grace and elegance.
Today, there are many etiquette resources but the definitive rules can be found in Crane's Blue Book of Stationery available at crane.com.
The time-honored words of our leading ladies of etiquette: Emily, Elizabeth and Anna Post, Amy Vanderbilt -and my favorite- Judith Martin aka Miss Manners, who have written a spate of books on the subject, are also worth heeding.
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